Monday, April 2, 2012

How much will it cost to raise Baby Davis the first year and beyond?

With Jon and I juggling some major life changes (Jon will be leaving his job to pursue a graduate degree) in addition to the arrival of our sweet Baby Davis, it's difficult to project life too far in to the future - especially the money part.

And if you look at some of the baby calculators, they can be scary. Estimates start at about $10,000 for the first year. Life-time estimates for an urban, mid-western family making less than $58,000/year who DO NOT plan to pay for college comes in at $161,670 (the fist year of this estimate is broken down in the pie chart below).

We definitely plan to pay for college - which raises it to a total of $270,842 (which still assumes only $109,172 for private college tuition and expenses - this seems to be a bit of a contrast with UChicago, our alma mater, costing a little more than $200,000 for four years in 2011 and rising).

Baby's First Year you'll spend: $8,650

Housing$2,850Food$1,060Transportation$1,000Clothing$610Healthcare$580
Childcare & Education $2,080
Misc. $470

Now those of you who know us know that we are eternal optimists. So we are hoping that it will cost a whole lot less than $10,000...

And we have a few natural or built in advantages:
1) Jon's parents will be providing full-time childcare for the first year!
2) We will NOT be moving to a bigger apartment - at least not for the first year. Instead we have split our gigantic bedroom into a combined parent room/nursery.

But here are some of the things that we aren't saving on:
1) I will be taking the full 12 weeks of my FMLA time. 1 week full pay, 5 weeks 60% pay, 6 weeks no pay.
2) Jon's income will be falling to less than half of his pre-baby/pre-graduate school income. (And at this point, we might be borrowing that "less than half his pre-baby/pre-graduate school income" income.)

At this point, a mild panic begins to set in. And so I look around for some kinder break downs. The Baby Center has an amazing cost calculator that really lets you see where the costs for baby's first year are coming from - for ongoing expenses and one-time purchases.

Based on my responses (see below), I get back a much nicer total: $4,857 (not including health insurance premiums, lost income for myself or Jon, or college savings). I will keep you posted on how our first year actuals go.


Ongoing Costs

Childcare
I won't be paying for regular childcare.
Help me estimate. I'll use a:
x months
I know exactly. I'll spend: $ per month x months
I'll use an occasional babysitter: $ per month x 12 months

Diapering
I'll be using x 12 months
Wipes $ per month x 12 months

Feeding
I plan to breastfeed: $0 per month
Formula: I'll spend $ per month x months
Solid foods: I'll spend $ per month x months

Clothing
I'll probably spend $ per month x 12 months
Savings for College
I'll try to save $ per month x 12 months
Medicine/First Aid
I'll probably spend $ per month x 12 months
Toiletries
I'll probably spend $ per month x 12 months
Toys/Books/Media
I'll probably spend $ per month x 12 months
Subtotal of Ongoing Costs: $4,332
One-Time Costs
Gear $0
item (typical price range)estimated cost
Infant car seat ($60 - $150)$
Convertible car seat ($80 - $300)$
Basic stroller ($70 - $900)$
Double stroller ($100 - $300)$
"Snap-on" stroller frame ($40 - $90)$
Jogging stroller ($100 - $300)$
Play yard ($59 - $150)$
Baby backpack ($40 - $300)$
Front carrier ($25 - $120)$
Sling or wrap carrier ($29 - $60)$
Diaper bag ($25 - $200)$
Activity Equipment $0
item (typical price range)estimated cost
Swing ($85 - $120)$
Bouncer/bouncy seat ($30 - $70)$
Activity center ($70 - $80)$
Play mat/gym ($25 - $80)$
Doorway jumper ($30 - $40)$
Nursery $0
item (typical price range)estimated cost
Crib ($120 - $850)$
Changing table ($80 - $250)$
Glider or rocker ($189 - $600)$
Bassinet ($50 - $260)$
Co-sleeper ($130 - $200)$
Hamper ($20 - $60)$
Basic bedding and blankets$
Coordinated crib bedding set ($50 - $600)$
Mobile ($20 - $55)$
Dresser ($80 - $500)$
Lamp ($24 - $70)$
Decorations$
Crib mattress ($60 - $140)$
Baby monitor ($40 - $60)$
Feeding $0
item (typical price range)estimated cost
Bottles and nipples$
Highchair ($60 - $250)$
Utensils$
Plates and bowls$
Cups and sippy cups$
Burp cloths (6)$
Bottle brush (2)$
Bibs (10)$
Breastfeeding $323
item (typical price range)estimated cost
Electric breast pump ($150 - $350)$
Manual breast pump$
Milk storage bags, breast pads, extra breast shields, ice packs$
Nursing bras (3)$
Nursing pillow ($24 - $44)$
Bathing/Grooming $0
item (typical price range)estimated cost
Baby towel with hood (2)$
Infant bathtub$
Tub for older baby$
Baby washcloths (5)$
Brush and comb$
Baby nail clippers$
Other $202
item (typical price range)estimated cost
Childproofing supplies$
Safety gates (2)$
Diaper pail$
Diaper pail refills (16)$
Pacifiers (6)$
Humidifier ($29 - $69)$
Birth announcements (50)$
Baby book or scrapbook ($12 - $40)$
Photo printing costs$
Miscellaneous$

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